About Panther Girl Gossip – En of kajira

The princess Kajira and En of kajira


The term ‘princess kajira’ is often used to describe female players who are master shopping or those who don’t have a clue how to play as a slave in SL Gor.

Now onto a new term ‘the En of kajira’, in recent months I have noticed them more and more on GE panther sims. They are first girls who are put on a pedestal by a tribes Chieftess and her council. These En of kajira are so mouthy that no panther dare correct or punish them. They are first girl monsters created by  GE panthers who allow them too much liberty in their role play.

I just want to say out loud. Listen up slave girl! You chose the slave girl role, so man up and role play as a kajira and not as some ‘panjira’ , a slavish panther wearing a collar 24/7 which was never written about in the books but you say it’s OK because your Chieftess said ‘we are GE……you do know what GE means don’t you?’

Which is great for little miss panjira because this princess will do anything cause she is so cared and loved, but then when you want to put your foot down and she says no, she becomes that problem no one wants to deal with!

And then little princess logged off.

Adding to this: in the early days of my SL Gor if one of these slaves was like this NO ONE would want her, now, she sniffs sniffs (aka cries a bit in IMs) and bam 10 more panthers will stroke her ego.

Comments from around the web.

K. Gausman:
okay, I’ll bite as I myself am guilty of using the term numerous times.

To me, a “Princess Kajira” is a girl whom is what I believe is Master shopping. The typical behavior of such persons is that they often come to a sim uncollared or dress as a panther and raid a city on their own in the hopes of fishing for that “perfect” Master. usually, its ends up being the guy who goes through all the trouble of capturing, binding, collaring and all that, just to find that the girl he hoped to claim his own has miraculously escaped from gorean capture knots using some magical lock pick to get out of the locked cage they are in and run from a city filled with guards and manage to somehow bribe the ship captains of gor with nothing but a camisk and collar to wisk them away to someplace other than where they are supposed to be.

I will not change my manner of addressing certain girls who fit this description as such as they forget that in the true spirit of Gor, kajirae did NOT have the choice. Don’t like the master? try him on for three days like a good sport. Still not satisfied? well then atleast you tried. Most men will understand if you choose to go back to your orginial owner or back to whereever you came from. But I implore those whom fit this decription of a “Princess Kajira” to consider the world you are in. Don’t like it? try a BDSM sim. Leave my Gor alone 🙂

R. McAuley:
It can be either or both. To me, a “princess” is someone who doesn’t have a clue how to be submissive. She may or may not be collared. If she is, its usually to someone who is a poor excuse for a master and she’s truly the one holding the chain. In her eyes, she can do no wrong, therefore accepting ICC for her ICA is impossible for her to grasp. And don’t try to tell her to chill, because that just fans the flames of her own arrogance.

D. Calderwood:
My belief it has always been the type of girl that sees what she can get from the whole thing. I remember one time I had this kajira that was hell bent on being owned by me and when finally I collared her first reaction was to send me a link to the store to get her this collar made up of diamonds or whatever the hell. I felt very insulted and told her as much. Yeah call me a cheap skate but no one is buying my weapons or clothes for me so why the hell should I have to buy some expensive collar? Anyway that was the deal breaker and later on I hear she had a whole collection of these fucking collars from a few guys she’s duped. Some of these “princesses” are cap whores and they want nothing better is for you to rescue their dumb ass, eff that. I consider it her betraying me by “accidentally” running around like an idiot in front of a panther or outlaw camp, my take is you get what you deserve so let them rot. Heh one time some panther PM’d wanting to know when I was going to come down and pick up my kajira. I answered back that she could rot in their for all I care. You have kajira that walk around with their snide remarks and thought emotes and think no one is going to raise a hand to her because their Master is some Ubar or Admin (and even sim owner) and of course if you beat the crap out of one for disrespecting you, you get banned from the sim, all because of the shit she started. I agree with Rayzor that alot of it is arrogance and its like she is the one holding the chain. I really detest Princess Kajira with a passion.

Reven:
Im bad for throwing the term princess round too..

I stick girls with the following into the princess category

* Thought emotes negative type
* Refusing to do or say anything unless a man is present
* Has a million limits and cries to the owner as soon as you lift as much as a hair on her
* Would happily be a fuck buddy and have a BF instead of a Master
* They seek nothing but attention and know very little about being a true submissive
* If they are bored its your fault. they demand you make the rp for them.
* They demand your time, you must do this that or the next thing
* They make you chase them when you punish them for being bad Icly
* She makes her owner only fur her. But secretly screws every good looking avi in Ims and when she dont get enough she vanishes
* Serving is beneath her
* She thinks her “sprited” way is cute. where its actually being a downright rude bitch.
* As soon as you even blink at another guy she goes off crazy in your ims
* The type that pulls the man from RP because shes bored
* They vanish as soon as they are no longer getting the attention or what they want for you
* Refusal to accept consequences for their actions. Set afk/ooc when they know they are in trouble
* The oh you cant do that cause my Master says I can do what i want to
* Call them beast/ Slut/ worse they bitch in your IMs for hours to come
* Cry’s to mods cause you hurt their feelings
* Tries to get others punished Icly and OOcly for them being pissed off cause you sat too close to their owner

I think theres alot more. But my brain is mush.
I a while back. Used to run round sims. Dressed in pink fluffy silks. Had the tiara and teddy bear and emote like a princess slave. Just to show how sims dealt with them. and it was hilarious but on the same hand people were aware oocly that needed to know. She was killed more times than I can remember. But it was fun to do

I think alot come to Gor for that Bdsm kick or the romantic side of the Slavery. But its not excusing them at all.

D. Barbosa:

* If they are bored its your fault. they demand you make the rp for them.

I was once called an attention whore for making the rounds in camp to see what could be done even if it was just keeping someone company. We’re all responsible for our own roleplay, right? I mean really, my other choice is to sit there stiff as a board, pretend to be a statue, wait until someone needs an NPC drink and freaking notecard my chores until my fingers are bleeding from typing twenty paragraphs. So if on one hand, I am an attention whore for expecting someone to RP with me, and on the other hand, I am an attention whore when I am the one making the effort to keep others entertained, how is a slave ever not going to be an attention whore?

This one line has me really thinking.

The problem with the slave role is sometimes slaves actually can’t do any right, which is a part of the role of course, but in the name of roleplay, what do you expect from slaves if not to actively participate in their own roleplay? No one wants to be a babysitter. We’re all responsible for our own roleplay. Even slaves should make their own roleplay.
Please don’t tell me you want “Yes Mistress, of course not Master,” slaves, because according to Reven’s thread on acceptable slave play, we all hate cookie cutter and statue slaves. Can’t win for losing, and now we’re dissecting Princess. Can we come to an agreement on what IS acceptable since for all appearances, none of the existing options seem to work?

I. Anton:
Princess slaves .. well I call them “cock chasers”
* slaves sitting afk till men arrives
* begs you to kennel while you in rp with them just to run to place when men gather
* IM your FC trying to tell that if he want some good sex they can do this on IMs (rofl .. yes this happened my RL husband and we get good laugh from this)
* coming to you while you have rp with 3 other people and demand slave exam now cause she’s rarely on-line and it must be now and when you tell her tomorrow cause right now busy rp is going on she jumps on your IMs and mute you
and many many more examples
But to not generalise attention whores and cock chasers you can find everywhere not only in slave group same as often happened that men not roleplay with you if you not flirting or give at least hint you my agree on furring .
Personally …. I not care just sometimes laugh

M. Firegrave:
If i chose to play my game in a certain way that results in “princess like behaviours”, so what? it is my game, my time and at the end of the day what a stranger perceives behind their screen and what they think is all really immaterial. Damn right!! ;D

I come online and role-play, for whatever my reasons may be, that is my choice. If something is not to my liking why should I indulge it purely for the sake of not being plastered with a princess kajira label. The first time I heard this term bandied around was way back when amongst Gorean Lifestylers and it was for any woman who displayed independent female attributes, if she was assertive, independent, intellectual, flamboyant, straightforward and free thinking.

The world of Gor was construed from a figment of one man’s imagination. Everything thereafter, is your perception and manifestation. Who is to say the above posts are an accurate assumption, as we all hold different truths, so there is no one truth and no one fact in retrospect.

I would like to think that there were slaves who displayed brattish type of behaviours and tendencies. There must have been drama seeking slaves as well as spoilt pampered and arrogant slaves.
Slaves that all they wanted was to fuck and serve and when it came time to do the laundry, cleaning would make excuses or pass the buck or bully another into the chore. The list could go on and on.

That we liken these behaviours in this post to “princess kajira labelling” is a little amusing, judgemental and somewhat short-sighted of the Kajira character and how diverse they could be.

Bleeding of IC and OOC behaviours/actions do happen, whether we like it or not and really who’s to say what constitutes a slave princess, that is why in my opinion the topic is completely subjective and the term slave princess is quite irrelevant.

Tertionus:
What a “princess” is depends almost entirely on the person doing the labeling. Some people think it’s the bitchy thought-moting drama magnet, while others think any slight hint of a personality makes someone a princess.

I think good advice is to just ignore or avoid people whose RP you don’t or can’t appreciate on any level.

annakiyaFalconer:
Princess kajira- a slave that does not have the first clue about being submissive.. They try to make the rules, they try to call the shots and when they do not get their way, well they just simply log off.. They tend to not want to do the chores or all of the things being a slave is all about however just want to lay in the furs all day long. They collar hop from one to the next if things are not the way they wish them to be. They also want to get all mad and upset and cry to their Master when they don’t get any time. WTF…. The Master decides when and if you get time and your Master decides if he will collar another, and your Master decides what you do . Grow up and remember the tenet “Be what you are” or the other option -stop being a princess kajira and leave Gor-there are other things you can do like, get a boyfriend.

B. Mayako:
Princess kajira- a slave that does not have the first clue about being submissive.. They try to make the rules, they try to call the shots and when they do not get their way, well they just simply log off.. They tend to not want to do the chores or all of the things being a slave is all about however just want to lay in the furs all day long. They collar hop from one to the next if things are not the way they wish them to be. They also want to get all mad and upset and cry to their Master when they don’t get any time. WTF…. The Master decides when and if you get time and your Master decides if he will collar another, and your Master decides what you do . Grow up and remember the tenet “Be what you are” or the other option -stop being a princess kajira and leave Gor-there are other things you can do like, get a boyfriend.
When you talk about “being submissive” and you talk about “when and if you get time”, are you talking purely IC or do you mean OOC as well? Is it ok to collar hop when it turns out the master who collared you really wanted an OOC slave, or doesn’t have the first clue about how to be master? Or should a typist just accept her fate because she is playing a slave?
What bugs me most about the term princess is that it is hooked onto the word slave.
I know some princess free women and princess free men too.
Thing is every princess needs an audience, otherwise they are just a princess in their own lunchtime.Don’t most sims have rules governing the use of insulting and derogatory language in IM’s to other players? Isn’t directly calling someone in IM a ‘princess kajira’ or ‘attention whore’ no different than calling someone an ‘asshole’ or a ‘prick’ or ‘bitch’? And how come there aren’t similar OOC terms for negative behaviour by free, like there are for slaves?

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